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Some million women and girls across 30 countries have been affected by female genital mutilation FGM. But how do survivors live with the pain of peeing, periods and childbirth? Hibo, now 46, was subjected to what is defined by the World Health Organization WHO as "type three" mutilation when she was six. This means all of her labia were cut off and she was then stitched together, leaving a tiny hole she compares to the size of a matchstick.

Her clitoris was also removed. It's coming out as droplets, and every drop was worse than the one before. This takes four or five minutes - and in that four or five minutes showing off my pussy experiencing horrific pain. Hibo came to the UK when she was 18, and within months visited a doctor to see if they could relieve the pain she experienced when she passed urine and during her periods.

Her translator didn't want to interpret her request, but the GP managed to understand. Eventually Hibo underwent a procedure called defibulation, when the labia is opened surgically. This widened the hole and exposed her urethra. It is by no means an outright fix, and can never restore sensitive tissue that was removed, but it did make it slightly easier to urinate. Sex, however, presented a new hurdle.

So the hole that you have is very small and sex is very difficult. You do get pleasures - but it's once in a blue moon. The trauma of the assault also had a bearing on intimate situations with her partner. So anything that's happening down there, you never see it as a good thing.

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Figures released by Unicef in February raised the of estimated FGM survivors by around 70 million to million worldwide, with Indonesia, Egypt and Ethiopia ing for half of all victims. Last year the government introduced a new law requiring professionals to report known cases of FGM in unders to the police. Activists and the police have raised awareness about the risk of British school girls being showing off my pussy out of the UK specifically to be stripped of their genitals during what is known as the "cutting season" over the summer.

However, little is known about how the millions of survivors - including at leastin the UK - cope. The repercussions of a procedure that either involves removing the clitoris type oneremoving the clitoris and the inner smaller labia type tworemoving the labia and a forced narrowing of the vaginal opening - usually, as in Hibo's case, removing the clitoris too type threeor any kind of harmful mutilation in the genitals sometimes referred to as type fourare wide-ranging. The symptoms are not normally discussed in the open, partly because FGM is so normalised among some communities that women don't think of it as a problem, or even connect their myriad health problems with their experience of FGM assays Janet Fyle, professional policy advisor at the Royal College of Midwives RCM.

The day-to-day reality for survivors can be bleak. The NHS lists urinary tract infections, uterine infections, kidney infections, cysts, reproductive issues and pain during sex as just some of the consequences. A "reversal" surgery, as defibulation is sometimes termed, can help to relieve some of the symptoms by opening up the lower vagina.

When Hibo became pregnant for the first time inaged 22, she says she was tortured by the idea of medical staff looking at her genitals, which had been physically altered. During the birth, she experienced flashbacks of being cut - which is a common experience of survivors.

At the time, she was the first FGM survivor that staff at the hospital in Surrey had seen.

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Neither she, nor they, had any idea how to try to make the birth easier. My son actually ripped parts of me as well because he was coming with such a force," Hibo recalls. It was horrific, and I ended up having a long time to recuperate. The woman was right. There was only one word for it - devastating. For the first time, I could see what I had been left with. It was just a hole. Everything else had been chopped off and sealed up.

Despite the doctor opening my skin up to expose my urethra so I could wee, there were no fleshy labia like other women had. No protection, no beauty, the area between my legs looked like dark brown sand that someone had dragged a faint line through, then as if someone had poked a stick into the sand, there at the bottom of the line was a hole.

My vagina. I could see it was a little bigger than it had originally been stitched thanks to the doctor who opened me slightly.

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But there it was. The only clue that I was a woman. The rest of my genitals had been sliced off and discarded. Despite the experience, Hibo went on to have six more children, and the subsequent births were much less traumatic. In the UK, a defibulation procedure is now offered as a matter of course before birth, along with psychological support and contact with survivor groups. Midwives say this is vital to those women who may have suppressed memories of the attack and find it difficult to even recognise what was done to them. Hibo credits her husband Yusuf, who she met just a few months after having her medical procedure in the UK, for his unwavering support in her decision to have surgery and speak out about a practice that is so common in the community she is from.

Despite her worst fears, she has found more happiness and intimacy than she ever thought possible. But the couple and their family have not managed to escape the expectations of the culture they are from. Showing off my pussy decision to make a stand against FGM meant confronting her mother's beliefs and put a huge strain on their relationship.

In her early years, they had "such a close bond". And yet it was her mother who showing off my pussy Hibo to have her genitals cut off and sewn up, reinforcing a widespread cultural belief that such a practice is essential for girls' reputations and future marriage prospects. She thought she was protecting the family honour. She herself was a victim - [and] her mother, her grandmother. Generations have undergone FGM - they didn't see anything wrong with it. You're going to be seen as someone who sleeps around with other men. For them, it was protection for the family and protection for you.

Hibo and her mother managed to resolve any tension before she passed away. But her in-laws have been "up in arms" about the couple's decision not to cut their three girls. Do I want them to suffer what I've suffered? Do I want them to go through what I go through? Girls in parts of Tanzania are often forced to undergo female genital mutilation, even though the practice is illegal. Faced with FGM, many had nowhere to turn - until now. A safe house has opened in the north of the country to offer protection when they need it most. Saving girls from the 'cutting season'.

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