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Relationships suck. They suck when you fight about different things. They suck when it is over. It is too soon to get into a new relationship. You need to grieve. You need to stay commitment-free for a while. And there are two solutions to this situation: stay alone for a while, on your own, which is relieving and awesome or to get into a special friendship. I call it special friendship because it is more than a friendship. A men and a woman who are friends, not best friends, just friends who meet occasionally to have sex.
I am a girl. I am open-minded. Most women condemn other women who would like to try that saying they have no respect on their bodies. I say that these women do have respect on their bodies, they listen to them, to their needs and they fulfil them. Simple is that. Keep it simple and sexy. When you decide to do that there are two important things: the chemistry you have with the person and the rules. It is important not to have feelings to that person and that person not to be your best friend. About the first one, because if you already have some feelings, and they will just grow, so you will suffer.
It will stop eventually.
Do not make it awkward. It should be fun. No feelings, no irrational hopes, no strings attached. Just a special friendship. The rules play an important role. You are not. Drop all the things you do when you are in a relationship and leave the sex. The last important rule is regarding the way this type of friendship is performed. It is not ok to cuddle or to spend the night together.
All of this it is done because you are not in a relationship and also because you must avoid any activity that can lead you into developing feelings.
It is very hard as a woman not to develop feelings for someone. Women are more sensitive. But, I think that the key to not develop feelings for a fuck buddy is to choose someone that you will never go on a real date with and who will never correspond to your standards: you do not like his style, voice, personality — but he is incredibly hot and you thought about him for a while.
Stay distant from his life. The only thing that should matter is the fun and enjoyment. Go out, meet people, keep yourself busy and do not involve him in your life more than necessary. This le us to the last part: how to act, react and not overreact when it is all over. Everything has an end. I know some fuck buddies who developed a relationship and they are happy. Either the woman or the man might catch feelings for the other and the other might not feel the same. Keep an open mind when you decide to start this friendship, when you are in it and when it is over.
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